13 February 2025
Celebrating a wedding at the Library
Su and John went to the British Library for one of their first dates. When they got married this year, they arranged to have wedding photographs taken at the Library. Su is in PR and John is a consultant.

Su
We went to a British Library Late event, the Algorave, on one of our first dates. I was a Library Member, so I saw that the event was happening and I invited him. In the end, we didn’t spend too much time at the rave because there were so many other things going on at the Library. We actually spent quite a bit of the evening in the Treasures Gallery, and by the time we got onto the dance floor, it was almost the end of the night. One of the reasons I remember that date so clearly was because I felt we were getting a bit more serious about each other.
That was back in 2019. We got married in late March in 2024. After he proposed, we went to the Library’s Fantasy exhibition. I was really looking forward to that exhibition as well, so to be there, engaged, wearing my new ring, made it very memorable. John saw an edition of The Hobbit on display that he had when he was a kid.
We took wedding photos at the British Library
The reason I invited John to the Library event in the first place was that early on, we discovered that we had a shared love of books. I did English Literature for A-Level and I love fiction. At that point, John was new to London, and he was very keen to explore the city. I had been here for close to ten years, and I’d become a bit blasé about what was available. The fact that he was interested made me interested too.
We had a small wedding at Abney Park in Stoke Newington. In the middle of the park there’s a chapel; I think they only finished refurbishing it in January 2024. The day of the wedding was quite hectic: we crammed a lot in. We took wedding photos at the Natural History Museum, at a bookshop on Charing Cross Road, in Chinatown and at the Library. Our whole relationship has been based around these key spots in London. Even though I had nice heels on, I only ended up wearing them for five minutes, for the photos, and then I was just running around with my sneakers on.
The Library is a meaningful place for us
I had two bridesmaids, one of whom I’ve known since my first day of secondary school. Her sister played the guitar as we walked down the aisle: ‘God Only Knows’ by the Beach Boys. Another friend baked the wedding cake. I’m glad I got my wedding dress second-hand, because the weather was awful; it was very muddy in Abney Park and it was a long dress. But because I hadn’t spent too much, I wasn’t very worried about it.
The Library is a meaningful place for us. I think it’s quite special that there is this kind of resource in London, a national library where you can go and see exhibitions, or hang out. London will be our home for the next few years; there’s still a lot that we want to do and see here. For now, we’re just enjoying being married.
John
Our date at the Algorave might possibly have been my first visit to the British Library. Since then, we’ve been there a lot; we often go to see the temporary exhibitions. We decided to do a photo shoot there on the day of our wedding because it’s a special location for us.
We have a lot of interests in common; we love photography; we like to read. We travel a lot; we go to a lot of exhibitions; we see shows; we really take advantage of the opportunities that London has to offer. The pandemic put our relationship to the test, and it’s come out pretty well because we’re married. We’re still enjoying the same things that we always have.
We went to see the Fantasy exhibition, which felt appropriate
I think we had a strong bond from the start. Our birthdays are in the same week, and shortly after our first set of birthday celebrations, Su became ill with appendicitis. Of course, I brought her stuff while she was in the hospital, and that’s when the relationship became more serious.
I proposed at Sketch, a restaurant in Mayfair. The Christmas decorations were up, so it looked like a wintry fantasy paradise. Afterwards, we went to see the Fantasy exhibition, which felt kind of appropriate. I read a lot of fantasy and science fiction when I was younger.
I’m happy with the life we have in London
I think we were one of the first marriages at the chapel in Abney Park since the refurbishment. It’s a non-denominational Victorian chapel with a mix of architectural elements; it’s a big folly, basically. It was pretty terrible weather on the day, but the green setting was important to us; we do a lot of hiking together. Afterwards, we had dinner at the pub next door; it was very much a neighbourhood affair. We went to the Cotswolds for our mini-moon.
Being based in London, with access to so many different cultural activities, is still very exciting. I’m happy with the life that we have here. There’ll be kids down the line; for the time being, we’re just having a good time.
As told to Lucy Peters